Women believe men should be doing all the caring and showing all the love but the truth is, men too have needs.
Women today have trouble doing the duties of satisfying a man. There are the basic things that will keep your man happy, like cleaning, cooking, looking nice, but there are secrets to really keeping him happy. See these 9 Tips;
1.) Show to him you truly and really care for him,Always ask questions!!! How was your day?, What can I get for you?, What was the score from your game? Most men love watching games especially football so, ask him about his favourite game whenever u know his game is on. A lot of men like to hear themselves talk, and It is great to have the person they love to listen. Now don't talk too much, sometimes they just want to watch the game. Trust me when they want you, they will let you know, give you that look and then you go in swift and fast and grab their attention.
2.) Have a drink together at a bar or anywhere to cool off. Sometimes we forget how to let go of everyday life and just be happy. Drinking will help to relax the both of you. Plus you can tell each other I love you a hundred times while eating small chops with the drink. What could be better?
3.) Play indoor games together. There are different types of games you can play such as chess, scrabble ,ludo etc. Watch movies together.
4.) Say nice things to his ear ,Touch him. Hold his hand unexpectedly or hug him from behind; Men love that too.
5.) Women should have opinions.. A man that loves you will love your opinions and he will giggle inside at your crazy ideas for the universe. Do not ever say " whatever it is you like". The king wants a queen and a queen is not quiet. speak your mind and he will smile,maybe not at the time, but sooner or later. Tell him jokes and secrets.
6.) Men love freedom - let them have it. Know the right time to talk to him about it,Let him hang with the other men. Do not be overly jealous. You fell in love with him because he was unique and had a great life. You are part of it now but do not take away his original life. If you want him to stay happy, you will encourage his freedom. Now don't be a pushover, set your ground rules and joke with him about it.
7.) Let him know how lucky you are to have him,tell him nice and lovely things,Tell him he is looking handsome. He is smelling nice and make him feel he can be around you all day long.
8.)Ladies have this metality that only the men are supposed to buy them gifts and nice things!why not try and turn the table around and see his reaction?you will be glad you did. If you want him to be happy and you’re not greedy then go to the store and buy him a gift. It is so nice when a man gets his gift and he smiles. Don't get him just anything, you know him best, so think about what makes him happy.
9.) Dont forget to always have that smiling face, No man wants a miserable and boring woman. Smiling is contagious, positive attitude is needed to make your man happpy. Love him and show him you love him. Effort goes a long way, and it may seem like a lot of work but if you do these things then in return he will give effort and make you happy.
To top it all, tell him the three letter words "I LOVE YOU" looking straight into his eye balls with a smile. Make it real and show him it is from your heart. Also don’t joke with him when it comes to FOOD.Every man loves a lady that can cook very nice meal.
I hope ladies would read and read over and over again
ReplyDeleteWhoever wrote this article is a very wise person. I applaud to you. I know for a fact that it is all true as I have been trying my best to do it all and it does wonders to my marriage. This article needs to be posted and re-posted for all to read.
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